Pour boiling water over oats. Cover and let stand 20 minutes. Beat butter till creamy, add sugars, beat till fluffy. Blend in eggs, add oats mix well. Bake at 350 degrees for 50 to 55 minutes. Frosting 1/4 cup melted oleo, 1/2 cup brown sugar, 3 tablespoons half and half and 3/4 cup of coconut.